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Louise & Hugo · 0:28

I answered her. Then I shouted.

Louise talks to Hugo about repeated questions, exhaustion and losing patience. Watch their short fictional conversation on The Dementia Companion.

Transcript

Louise: I answered her six times, Hugo. On the seventh, I shouted.

Hugo: And now you're upset about that as well.

Louise: Everyone says, remember, she can't help it. I know she can't help it. I'm still exhausted.

Hugo: Knowing why it happens doesn't give you endless patience.

Louise: She kept asking when my sister was coming. I wrote it down. She still asked.

Hugo: Maybe she needed reassurance more than the time. She's coming after lunch. I'll wait with you, might help.

Louise: And when I'm about to shout again...

Hugo: If Mum's safe, take a short pause. And tell your sister you need some relief, not another reminder to be patient.

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